Retreats

Deep Healing of Exiles Retreat

Presenter:

Dr. Richard Schwartz

Location:

Molokai, Hawaii

Hui Ho'olana is surrounded by 100 acres of awesome natural beauty and is now considered by many to be one of the finest small workshop facilities in the world. See more information about Hui Ho'olana at http://huiho.org/index.php

Schedule:

January 5-12, 2020

Description:

Deep Healing of Exiles is a seven day retreat in which we will explore the spir-itual side of IFS. The design was developed to facilitate accessing high levels of Self-energy, inviting guidance regarding a vision for your life, and further un-burdening your parts as a way to remove obstacles to accessing Self.

The intimate venue with just 15 - 17 participants, the inspiring and nurturing environment, superb natural food, opportunity of watching Dick’s daily work offers a unique and unmatched opportunity to further and enrich your IFS journey.  It is the hope for participants of this retreat to become more ground-ed in Self energy so they are better positioned to “play the model forward” in their personal life, their practice, their community and the world.

At the retreat through Dick's Self led guidance and the IFS model you will be offered the practice of Ho'oponopono .  This Hawaiian concept, "to make things right” both personally and in the world, will draw upon the evolving conceptual spiritual framework of IFS to deeply heal exiles.
            

This advanced retreat is being offered to participants with a minimum of Level 1 IFS training.

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Fees:

Tuition is $3,500, including 7 nights lodging and 20 meals.

The payment of $1750 reserves your spot in the program. The balance of $1,750 per person will be charged on or after December 1, 2019.

*Cancellation/ Refund Policy: If you are registered and with-draw/cancel after Dec 4, 2019 your tuition is forfeited. If you with-draw prior to Dec 4, 2019 the deposit/tuition is refundable only if your space can be filled, less a $250. admin fee. If the space is not filled, you forfeit the deposit/tuition.
Hui Ho’olana is only opened to program participants. Family members, friends and pets cannot be accommodated during the retreat.


Contact:

For more information you can contact Karin White at karinwhite@comcast.net

For the application, please fill out and submit your application by clicking on this link:  https://selfleadership.org/ifs-store-deep-healing-molokai-2020.html
After the process is complete notifications will be sent out by the end of July.

***RETREAT IS NOW FULL.  IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE ON THE WAITLIST PLEASE CONTACT KARIN WHITE AT karinwhite@comcast.net***

U-Turn to Return From Reactivity to Self-Leadership: An IFS Approach to Increasing Connection and Deepening Intimacy

Presenter:

Cathy Curtis, LCSW and Toni Crossen, MFT

Location:

Subud Center
3800 Old San Jose Rd
Soquel, CA

Schedule:

March 12-15, 2020
Thursday - Sunday

Description:

A Retreat for Individuals and Couples, Nonresidential

Richard Schwartz coined the phrase “u-turn”. This quite literally means learning to turn your attention toward yourself and away from the external environment for validation.

This retreat is designed to help people understand the multi-layered reasons for their reactivity. People often use behavior resulting in the opposite of their intention. Some examples of these ineffective behaviors are, shaming, blaming, withdrawing and criticizing. Often
people use these behaviors as a protection method for the more vulnerable feelings and exiled parts underneath.

This workshop will open up the possibility for more choices in how to respond to others. These new choices can lead to more closeness and intimacy in your life.

We will help you explore your own reactivity and the vulnerabilities inside that drive it. In addition, you will learn how to help those vulnerable parts which will then lessen reactivity and allow for
clearer, more heart felt communication. This can also help increase compassion toward yourself and others.

We will also cover what it means to make a “self-led return” in conversation with another. We will teach how to speak for your internal experience in a self-led way. Speaking for your experience rather than blaming, etc. makes it much easier for the other person to listen. This greatly increases your chances of being heard and met.
This retreat is based on the Internal Family Systems model of Richard Schwartz and the Intimacy from the Inside Out work of Toni Herbine-Blank.

You will walk away with a basic road map of a self-led communication.  Concepts and exercises will be given to help you tune inside, spend time connecting and developing an internal relationship with your vulnerable parts, and then return to the external self to speak for your experience in a way that brings more connections.

24 IFS CE’s provided for therapists

Coffee tea and light snacks will be provided.

Fees:

Mail your nonrefundable deposit check of

$200 made payable to:

Toni Crossen
725 Front Street, #200
Santa Crruz, CA 95060

Early Bird Registration is $650
- Ends January 31 -
Registration after January 31 is $750

Please include your name, email and phone if info is not already present on your check.

Contact:

For more information and to register, please contact Toni Crossen at tonicrossen@gmail.com and/or call 831.239.8909